Two Dads: One Computer-maniac, the Other Computer-phobic

I have two Dads. That sounds strange doesn't it?the job, so he sticks with it.). I'm also a little afraid to
One is my genetic father, and the other is myhook my laptop up to her dial-up line as I know from
geneticist father. The genetic Dad I've only ever livedexperience that I'll have to change some settings of
with for one year when I was an infant, while thewhich I am not confident about doing.
geneticist Dad is what you would call a step-father,So the next answer was to go to her university
but I've lived in close proximity with him for morewhere she said people use their laptops wirelessly in
than 20 years. I feel close to them both. I connectthe library. That sounded cool so I went in and tried
differently with each of them but on a pretty muchit out. I even tried changing the settings to get it to
equal level. The reason I'm sharing my personalwork (It took courage.) but I couldn't get it to work.
information with you is because I've just had aI was weary about asking for help because I wasn't
realisation about my fathers in relation to the areareally a student at that particular learning
that I work in: computers and the Internet. It's reallyestablishment. Instead, I've been using the library's
quite interesting.computers. This is OK, but since I can't walk away
One father is a computer maniac. Whenever a newwith the files I create (I borrowed my girlfriend's
technology, software, gadget, or website emergesthumb-drive but an experience from the past of not
he is one of the first to grab it up and evaluate it. Mybeing able to transfer information from PC to Mac
other father has an old piece-of-crap box that looksdeters me from using it-again, an irrational fear. I
something like a computer, with a tediously slowknow it, and I will give it a try this week. I've
dial-up connection to the World Wide Web.resorted to saving my files in my email account as
Compared to the wireless, broadband Mac personalattachments. It's not conventional, but it works.
computer and mobile-connected Mac laptop of theAnother issue I've had is getting onto my messenger
enthusiast, they couldn't be from further parts of theservice. The university computers don't have it on
galaxy.their desktop, and when I tried to download an
Then there's me. I could be construed as being aon-line version I was told that I didn't have the
walking paradox, an enigma, or just plainly twistedauthority to do so. I went to an Internet
when it comes to my relationship with the computercafé, and I could do work there (I'm working
and Internet sphere of life. Nature/nurture, geneticon the road) but I feel kind of silly paying to get paid.
environmental...For whatever strange reason, I haveIt was cool there though as they had messenger
turned out to be a combination of the two papas. Iwith voice and video and I was able to have a
work as a creative writer for an Internetconversation with my brother who is travelling around
web-hosting company. I love the ideas and valuableIndia. He could see my sister and me, but we couldn't
functions and tools that the Internet has brought tosee him as he said the Indian computer devices
humanity (or was it humanity that brought it to the(webcams, headsets) in that town were looking a
Internet?). However, I have issues and challengeslittle bit crappy in design and also looked worse for
when it comes to using these awe-inspiring machines.wear. It was heaps of fun making funny faces
Currently I am away from home in a different cityknowing that he would be seeing us. I think he's
visiting my girlfriend. At home (I am currently livinggetting lonely as he's only 19 years old and has been
with my parents-Mother and geneticist, as I'm goingaway from home for over 7 months.
to live overseas soon) all I have to do to get on theAs you can see I've inherited beliefs about computer
Internet is open up my laptop and I'm on-line. If I'mfrom both of my Dads. I find things more difficult
at work, I go to my PC and all of my settings arethan most, I believe, but I'm not going to give up
stored and ready for me to use. While in a newdoing my best to get the things done that I feel are
place, things haven't been running as smoothly as Inecessary. Over time I hope to get over these little
would've liked. The answers are probably simple andobstacles and hurdles and become proficient in all of
easy to do, but this is one of the kinds of challengesthe cool aspects of this new realm of human
that cause me to stumble. Although I am deeplyendeavour. I also have faith that the technicians and
interested and have a true faith in this newengineers are probably working hard to make things
technology, I am a real novice when it comes tosimple for the rest of us.
getting things done on someone else's computer.Whatever happens, I'm going to stick with it, and
I brought my laptop with me. My girlfriend only has awhen I go to see my genetic father next I'm going
dial-up connection which she uses with her laptop. Ito do my best to inspire him to buy a new computer
could use hers' but she's Chinese so a lot of whatwith a Broadband connection. Then all I have to do is
comes up on the screen is illegible to me. I don'tshow him a few of the amazing things that this
know how to change her language configuration. I'mhuman created Internet tool can do. One of the
used to doing it quite easily on my Mac, but heraspects of the Web that affects me most
computer is a PC and I'm not as practiced in thisprofoundly is the simple fact that if you think of
other format. That's one of my problems. I only haveanything at all in the known Universe, you can then
so much patience when it comes to working theselook it up on your search engine like Google and in
technological issues out; it could be a trait passed onthe time it takes to blink your eye, immediately start
by my ice-age father (No judgement is being laidto learn. It sure beats catching the train to the library,
here. He just doesn't feel that he can work newlooking up a book in the card catalogue, searching for
technologies out. He's had a digital telephoneit, then finding out that someone else has borrowed
answering machine for two years which he still hasn'tit and is late bringing it back.
set up. He feels bad about it but his manual one does